Mine was not, but then turned the corner and is again. Don't give up hope, there is ALWAYS a chance. Even after D. As long as you are open to it there is a chance she will come around.
Steve's right. The days may look dark now, but that could start to change any moment. When I think back about my experience, I can see how important timing played a major part. I mean, she may get glimpses of her fantasy having cracks.....and she may even gear up to drive it more forcefully, but some day it's going to crumble. Reality is going to smack her in the face. Fantasies are like cotton candy. They may look big, pretty, and taste sweet......but it's only spun sugar and artificial coloring. Not much substance there!
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
