So so new to this :(

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The MLcer will spend a lot even when they were once responsible with money


I don't know your arrangements

but my XH paid me a good deal of money while separated
I separated all accounts
and took my name off any shared credit cards
We had a joint business at the time of break up that was running well-

What I did not know was the amount of money my XH was spending
because he was paying me well..
I didn't realize he was gambling with OW and spending lots of money from our business and not paying the bills from our business and literally draining all the funds
I was extremely lucky because my brother worker there also and he helped me intervene to save the business
He was also racking up debt on all his credit cards