I had an absolute terrible marriage counseling session today. I have tried to make so many 180s, but I have not made any progress in winning back my wife's love. I know this shouldn't be my expectation from the advice on this site, but it is so counterintuitive.

I love my wife and kids so much. I just don't want my family destroyed.

During the counseling session she said that she has been unhappy and lonely for so many years and is just done. I never in a million years would have thought that she has been this unhappy. I have always thought we got along really well. Sure, there were reoccurring problems by both of us, but not to the extent that I thought our marriage was in trouble. PLEASE GOD HELP ME.


M: 22, T: 27
Three Children
BD: 12/15/18