Not that I'm experienced here, but I think that this could be chalked up to habit. Learning to listen and validate when you don't care is just a social growth opportunity.
Like how I believe love is a verb and you can create it through actions. You can create caring about others by doing it.
May: discover PA April: MC pending IC, back in MBR, discover EA March: different bedrooms, IC Jan 19: ILYBINILWY