You all freaked me out about the whole restraining order.
It is all about awareness. If you prepare for the worse case, then anything else is easier to deal with. If the worse case does happen, then you already have a plan.
How many of us have said: "My wife wouln't do that"
and then said:
"I can't believe my wife did that" or "is doing this"
Going into a sitch with your eyes wide open is better than being blindsided.
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712