She asked if I wanted to stay and see the dogs for a little bit. I really do, but I declined because I didn't want it to open an opportunity for her to start telling me what I did wrong for the umpteenth time. I wasn't in the mood to hear it nor to validate her feelings last night.
That's weird but WAS's will do all kinds of weird things. Pull you in and push you away is the norm.
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Do I send her things with me and the kids having a good time together? Not gifts, just pictures of us doing fun things.
No, definitely not. She didn't say she WANTS you to, she's just saying if you do she won't freak out. Not the same thing. Post pics of you and the kids on FB, if she really wants to see you that bad she can go there and knock herself out.
I always appreciate the perspective AS. You are right, she didn't say she wanted it, she just said it was ok.
I'm going to ask to see the dogs next time I drop the kids off. Its what I want after all.
She blocked me on FB, I will tell her the pics are available there. If she unblocks, then so be it.
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