I would also like to know if W is possible MLC and whether that makes any difference to anything. Depression, loss of close relative, D18 moving away, SSRIs, possible premenopausal, parents divorce at young age all point to the possibility.

How much difference is there in the way you would interact with a MLC compared to a WW and a WAS? I’ve seen Sandi’s threads about how to treat a WW, but it doesn’t explain how to know which you are dealing with and how to deal with the other two types.

Are there any threads that help to categorise them and also explain the different ways to interact with them?

I think I understand that the DBing from a personal perspective isn’t much different - detach, GAL, 180s etc but not how to deal with the types themselves.


H41 (me), W43
M10, Together 16
S18, D9

BD - Jan 19
‘Temp’ S (I moved out) - Feb 19