I'd kill for my wife to end up level headed like sandi. Sadly, I think that's basically a needle in a haystack.
Mine was not, but then turned the corner and is again. Don't give up hope, there is ALWAYS a chance. Even after D. As long as you are open to it there is a chance she will come around.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018