Growing Pains(LB55 thread 4)

[LB55]

A couple other strange things from last night in our short interaction while she was trying to talk with me.

1. She asked if I wanted to stay and see the dogs for a little bit. I really do, but I declined because I didn't want it to open an opportunity for her to start telling me what I did wrong for the umpteenth time. I wasn't in the mood to hear it nor to validate her feelings last night.

2. I sent her a picture I took of the kids hiking. She said that its ok for me to send pics of me doing things with the kids as well. I thought this strange as she took down all pictures of me anywhere they could be seen in the house. I can see in the windows when I drop the kids off and they are all gone. I only said I would think about it.

Do I send her things with me and the kids having a good time together? Not gifts, just pictures of us doing fun things. I just don't know why she would want that nor if i should do it. I want to visit the dogs, but I am thinking I should ask for it vice her springing it on me while I am unprepared mentally to stay the course. She has never offered me to see them since this whole thing started.