Ballast, communication is extraordinarily hard. Trying to understand what someone's saying, and what they actually mean, is just impossible. It seems your ex-wife is waiting for you to say or do something to respond to her comments but how can you know what to say? When you write here on the group you sound like a caring, self-aware, humble person so it's hard to imagine how or why your wife would want to give you up. I hope eventually your ex-wife finds what she's seeking and doesn't connect her emotions to you so you don't have to keep dealing with these comments!
