Hi Ballast, I haven't been able to be active here much lately, but one question I have as I read your updates is whether you ever figured out why your wife left you? I wonder if you could ask her to clarify what she means when she says all these things. I doubt that engaging her each time would be wise, but I wonder if you could try a single attempt at "why did all this happen? I never understood why you left so it's hard for me to understand your comments..." I know it doesn't matter so much now, but it just seems like there's still a piece of the puzzle missing.
