Well she went back to the MBR, so she was gone for one night from it. I think it was too hard to climb into bed with me in it [sigh]. But I'm glad she's back in it.
She was pretty nice today. The door wasn't closed until she went to bed. She told me she was going to bed (that hasn't happened since this started) and she helped make dinner. Even did a couple dishes (which I thanked her for). I know it's just a day and will be gone tomorrow...... actually really gone tomorrow.... she's out on a business trip from Tuesday to Friday. Time for me to visit family, go to the gym (joined one yesterday), read and relax.
Our 21st anniversary is one week from today. I don't know to mark it or not. I don't want to cause stress. Oh!!! and tomorrow is my 1st DB call with a coach!!! They called today and scheduled it (I was amazed, today is a holiday). Tomorrow is a big day, I can't wait.
-SoloFlex
I can't tell you what to do, but I don't know if I would mark it. For valentines day (before I knew about sandi's DB rules) I tried to get flowers for W.
Worst day of my life.
I'm aware everyone's situation is different and you might not get the same reaction I got. But my W saw it as immense pressure.
Btw - very nice! Thinking about getting a DB coach too
