all...it's interesting as I've been over and done with her for months now and yet in our interactions by email I'll still get "i'm so done" or "i have a better life now" or "i'm over this". I don't get the point of those really as to me those are words that at best could have been used a year or so ago..it's as if she still thinks I care how she feels and those statements to me sound immature and like she's still fighting something...although I'm not sure exactly what.
And yeah, Steve I imagine that is the main feeling behind it. As a friend of mine said to me "once this is over and you are gone, who is she going to have to place her feelings upon". Certainly isn't going to be me. I'm thankful for my future, will always take the high road, forgive her and leave her to her own path. I guess it's just frustrating to me as I'm like "c'mon at least for D4's sake we need to have some kind of respectful, in person ability". As with all of this time will unfold all of this how it will. All I can do is forgive, focus on my future and be the best father I can be for D4. If WW chooses to come along or not as with many things is out of my control.
Well said. My guess is that she is not happy with herself, which makes it impossible to be happy with others.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
