B - My XW would want to be friends if I would let her. I have no desire for anything more than a cordial, co-parenting relationship. I have no interest in knowing what is going on in her life, what she is up to, how she is doing, etc. I am not rude to her, I never put my kids in the middle and make them pick sides, I have never once spoken bad about her either however I have no interest. I am flexible with her when it comes to co-parenting our girls and always work with her when she has a scheduling issue, or when it comes to paying for things or just coordinating events in general but that is the extent.
She wanted nothing to with me, wanted a divorce, got the divorce and now wants to be my friend? No thank you. For me, there is no point.