One more thing on me moving out - my wife works from home with a good amount of travel, she can live anywhere. She has been unhappy living in our town for a while, especially this last year after our neighbors moved away and she lost some support. In the last year, I have been actively seeking another job to allow us to move. Ironically, I just landed an interview for our dream job plan A a week after the BD. Plan B is for her to stay in our town for one more school year, after which we will both move to the same city and be able to co-parent our daughter. She said that if I stayed it the family house and she moved out she might as well move states with my daughter now so she doesn’t have to move her twice. Basically a veiled threat of taking my daughter away if I don’t move out. Even if I land the job I won’t be ready to move for at least a year so I’m in a tough spot here. May need to consult with an attorney.
