Hey LH and sandi, thanks for taking the time.

LH you are right. I do deserve better and to not be talked to like that. There’s no way I would R with my W with how she’s been acting. She definitely needs to do some inward looking.

Sandi, I’m glad to hear you approve of some of my interactions! You’re right I should know how she acts now and none of these behaviors should surprise me. No sandi I’m not dating to make my W jealous, I haven’t even mentioned it to her and don’t post stuff like that on social media. I think she just assumes I’m seeing people. Yes I need to be clear with the girls I’m talking to that I’m not looking for anything too serious for now. I’m mainly dating because a goal of mine was to meet new people and improve my socialization with strangers. It’s also fun to go to new places and try new foods as my GAL so might as well bring a pretty girl along haha.

You’re right I need to get better at stopping those conversations, they do no good. I think you’re absolutely right about the drinking. Need to not talk to her after drinking. Me being a little drunk definitely fed into that R talk. Need to get better in that aspect.


Me: 26 W:26
T:6 M:1 S: 1
BD: 3/26/19
DBing: 4/12/19
Separation: 5/20/19
I filed: 8/7/19