I had to hold back laughter in the courtroom. Hahaha!
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I can’t believe you got that in your divorce decree. What if she remarries?
I didn't ask for that. I only asked that current OM not be allowed around S. Neither me nor my attorney asked for or expected it. But the judge decided to add this himself presumably since she's already broken this rule several times. There's no language in there giving her an out if she wants to get married, so...not my problem.
Currently, W lives with her mother. "Mother" bought a house here in town that W is actually paying for, so she has an automatic, built-in babysitter if W decides she wants to go do something overnight. If S ends up resenting her for it, that's unfortunate. I'd rather that not happen...but she wanted to take this path, so she can deal with the fallout.
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Also, does this block out overnights with any woman who may come into your life?
Nope. It's pretty much strictly a penalty against W. The only way to make it stronger is to include women in it, since she has been known to date women as well. I may need to bring that up, although I doubt W would do that as much since she's living with her mom now.