Had another rage moment this weekend, but kept it under control. Will update later. Watched Swingers for the first time last night, Great movie. I didn't know so many big names were in it. Definitely spoke the message and vibe I needed to hear with all the guys going through this crap. We rise, we fall, we rise again. Bottom line is eventually we will follow our own path, and hopefully come across someone who gets us and understands us. Not like our WAW'S... I say let em walk. Don't give them a second thought, even if they claim that for years, they were doing all the work, they obviously didn't communicate things properly, or had proper coping mechanisms for both parties to come to a peaceable resolve. I am at a point where the only thing me and the STBXW agree on is that we don't agree or understand anything about each others perceptions and perspectives, and even if we did, it doesn't change anything. I say let them walk. Ill find someone someday who eventually gets me. Attributes, flaws and all. My time is precious.
