UN, I will, hope I can get the 1st call done soon.
I think having a real plan will help a lot. Giving her time and space is good, and hopefully helping her to some extent.
Now I understand how people can make big mistakes in what they say. If she was here tonight I could be in real trouble. So many emotions..... anger, sadness, betrayal, more anger..... even worse are the questions that go with them.
Absolutely a spiritual battle..... these thoughts are not something I'd normally think. I'm not an angry, hate filled person. Since we're linked by marriage, I wonder if she experiences the same thing at the same time.... or if she has relief while I take the hits.