I have only joined Hinge. I didn't want random hook ups (thus no tinder) and, (apologies if this is unkind to anyone here), the others seemed to be for people who really really wanted a relationship. I am going with the flow and seeing what happens. If there is one thing I have learned on this forum, is to live life without expectations. I am not going hiking. We are going rock climbing. I think it is the Davide influence
Oh, and he is in his 20's. He did ask why I went for someone younger and I told him because I liked his answers, they had both a depth and sense of fun to them. His pictures showed he led an active, healthy life style (no naked upper body shots) and he was into yoga, meditation and climbing. So, we will see. No expectations.
I have engaged in conversations with a couple of men. They seem OK. Still, it all seems very false. Like being stuck in a room with someone you don't know and being forced to make small talk.