I don’t know the details of your divorce or BD, but chances are if you are on these forums, cheating, lying, dating, gaslighting was at play. I would never be friends with someone that stole from me or assaulted me or conned me. That’s not a person I would trust or want to deal with. Most of our ex”s did stuff that in my opinion would put them somewhere close to the bottom of Dante’s inferno.
