It’s the middle of my workday and I just can’t concentrate. It was a busy week and I’ve given it all I got! I have a presentation due in 2 hours.... meh.... I’ll get to it.
Re: my sitch- we are finally going to be scheduling our mandatory settlement conference. Finally! I see light ahead! This four year chapter will have a close soon and I’m soooo ready. Blows my mind that he was the one who wanted this and now we’re the ones pushing as quickly as we can.
Technically, our marriage was bifurcated 13 months ago and they still haven’t submitted the judgment paperwork. Insane.
Anyway... the last 2 months have been easier on me. I was severely stressed over the financial situation I was in, but since ex now has to pay his sanctions, I feel like I can breathe again. I can buy groceries and gas and not have to worry about which one is more important. That was so rough.
I’m NOT looking forward to the back and forth dealings of the settlement, but I’m thankful the end is near. I’m gonna use this time to build up my resiliency reserves for (hopefully) what will be the final battle with ex.
Life is good.
Me- 30's H- 40's T-10 M-5 I moved out b/c he wanted space- June 15 D filed by H: September 16
