W invited me and S1 to beach tomorrow, despite me now pushing D. I was either going to have plans to go hiking with him, or beach. Whatdaya think? Take it or leave it?
I think you already answered your own question:
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I really have no interest in spending time with her anymore, unless she's willing to recommit to M. I've made myself clear too many trust issues have been broken, she's not willing to work together on them, so Im done and pushing forward. Made myself clear several times in not playing family anymore, and we are doing everything my way with regards to seperating family affairs. Not accepting any more scraps or breadcrumbs. I'm about to tell her I have plans with S1... Sorry...
You don't want to spend time with her, you don't trust her, you're done and pushing forward. You're not going to play family anymore. Here's my question to you and I am being serious- if all of that is true, then why are you even asking the question? Are you really sure you are done?
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You think I should give her a shot? Or keep doing what I'm doing until she finally caves?
Do things for you and S, not to make her cave or get any other kind of reaction out of her.