So so new to this :(

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Nyla

Please forgive yourself-and let it go
try not to put yourself in that position
meet him outside the home to talk or by phone
We will make many mistakes on the MLC journey-just learn from it

I would ask for time to allow the children to work through the separation b4 introducing them to OW

I would ask if he could pick the kids up on his visits
(I think they are young?) and bring them home
or visit them at the house and you go out
without OW present for now

AS for ow- I believe the MLCer lies to them as well-

Here he is having sex with you while OW is on her way to live with him
not sure how OW would feel about her new man cheating already
so he is not accountable to anyone.
They are usually people with very low standards, self worth or psych or addiction issues
I would want to protect my children if possible from OW-

some woman also do not see anything wrong with dating a married man-
especially if the man tells them some stories about being separated or D-