Im an all or nothing kind of guy. That will never change. Either you give me your all (or attempt to try at least.) Or ill take nothing at all and walk away. Put in all your chips, or walk away from the table when it comes to personal R's. None of this $1 chips at a time breadcrumbs crap. I think the beach experience could be fun, but its funny?.. Now im the one that doesn't want to give her "false hope" I kmow I'm mind reading here, but I can only see 2 or 3 reasons for the invite, despite me pushing the D and insisting doing everything separated.

A.) She has no one else to go with, doesn't want to go alone, and conveniently wants to use me to fill that gap. If she had company, she probably wouldn't be asking me. If her only choice is to go alone, she will probably stay home.

B.) She thinks I have no plans/no social life/no friends, because I only have a few good friends and takes pity on me.

C.) She actually wants to hang with me and temp check. (Doubtful but don't GIve a $hit anyway.)