Embracing my Inner Me in progress

[peacetoday]

Grace

19 is a tough age and I'm sure she is processing all that has happened also-
therapy or coaching is a great tool for the kids


There is no time frame here..
It definitely takes a lot of time for us to sort out the mess
and everything your thinking and feeling -I have felt too

I so wanted to restore MY M as so many of us here have-

The only way to really get to the other side with clarity is to trudge though it

all the feelings that come up and all the thoughts that try to analyze and figure it all out-

There may never be any conclusive evidence...but we still see the reality of what our spouses are doing and the life they choose-
I believe they cant help themselves-Yes it seems easy to us-just get some help-but they cant
and they are hooked into OW and the fantasy life.
.she may be dangerous, crazy--addicted..

I don't think there is anyway to know for sure if someone is in MLC or having some other issues-
MLCers may share certain characteristics and may have unresolved childhood issues, but really who hasn't had some childhood stuff-
The only way to really know to watch his actions and see what direction he goes as time moves on

We also continue as you are to create your best life and love him from a far as you let him go-