Yeah... I’ve calmed now. Maybe had she just asked without preceding with the kids and the pleading about giving more than I initially thought, I wouldn’t feel as bad about it. It’s just money.
I got a “thanks Unchien” text this morning. So formal.
Most of my frustration at myself is how much I enjoyed the preceding talk. We laughed, I validated - I’m like a puppy dog with the owner coming home when she is nice.