Originally Posted by SoTorn
Meeting my new GF helped me detach 100%. I actually read an article on Psychology that talks about people who are betrayed getting to a much healthier point emotionally and mentally when they completely move on from being an LBS by dating.

I agree with the article 100% because I am happy now not only with myself but with my new relationship. I wanted to move on and I feel fortunate that I met my GF when I did because she made it much easier to do so.



Agree completely, ST. Same situation for me. I needed to detach in the worst way and it helped do just that.


M: 34 W:34
D:7 D:6 S:3

M: 9.5 years T: 12

OM found & BD (by me): 9/19/18
IHS begins
W informs me she's moving out: 11/28/18
W files: 12/21/18
D Final: 2/25/19