Thanks for the advice! Okay so she ended up texting me asking if I could bring my S to see her when I picked him up. She was sad and I validated about her first night without our S. She then started crying. Is it bad I don’t feel bad for her when this is a repercussion if her choice?

An hour or two later she face timed me to see the baby. At one point I asked are you just calling to say hi? She replied “why else would I be calling?” Seemed kind of rude so I said, “maybe to say something of importance?” Lol.

Later at around 9pm she texted asking how son was?
Me:he’s fine
W:okay.....
W:you could at least send a picture
Me: he’s asleep

I’m kind of getting annoyed with this meaningless contact just for her to ask how S is doing. Should I not reply to this stuff anymore or make it clear I don’t want to text about non crucial things?


Me: 26 W:26
T:6 M:1 S: 1
BD: 3/26/19
DBing: 4/12/19
Separation: 5/20/19
I filed: 8/7/19