Hey there.

I got BD almost nine years ago after a 25 year marriage.

I was reading your sitch and just wanted to chime in.

Believe it or not, my XW also started to run after "always being a runner."

As for all the terrible things that you supposedly did, don't feel bad. My XW accused me of:

1. Never taking her to the right grocery store. - Seriously. This was her NUMBER ONE reason.
2. I never got a vasectomy.
3. I wouldn't let her adopt a daughter from China. (We had four boys.)
4. Everything had to be done on my schedule. (I was the only one working.....duh? I worked. She was a stay at home mom by choice.)
5. I never let her dress the way that she wanted.

Also, getting married was the worst day of her life and we should have NEVER married blah blah blah.

My point is, they are all CRAZY in their own special way, but also identical too. So identical that it is almost word for word.

Almost every vet here (if not all) has heard everything you have and has been accused of everything you have. This is serious stuff.

Stay strong and hold on tight. It is a long ride.

Tad

Last edited by tadpole1025; 05/24/19 12:51 AM.

Currently:
M 57 XW 58
Sons 39,34,32,30

The Sitch:
Married 26 years
EA w/ OM 9/10
Bomb 10/10 (5 weeks after 25th anniversary)
Sep 12/10
She wants D 1/11
W files 5/11
D final 10/11
XW marries OM 6/13