Complex WW and/or MLC #3

[P_Jam]

Yeah, I don't think I have anything more to say (letters) and I've never said I wold ALWAYS be there for her.
Because I know she is still a little confused about what she wants I wanted her to know that I have a mental timeline and that my "limbo" situation would only last so long. I think its important (in my sitch) that she take some real time then make a conscious decision to say no (or BD again) whatever happens. In my opinion this let's her know/feel that Plan B either becomes plan A for a while so that can see if we're both willing to put in the work for R. The time/space/apartment can be used for whatever the hell she wants/needs between now and then, but she will need to make a decision relatively soon (especially if she wants to do anything together as a family this summer) <-- which I know she's thinking about.

Thanks to all of you again. I've been very direct (and even argumentative) in a few posts. But its only my "type A" personality that feels necessary to do it "my way". I've had a good couple of weeks and I'm sure I will have some bad ones coming up where; for whatever reason I'll be here looking for support. I hope you're still willing to provide it.