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Originally Posted by si13
Man, my W is really lost. All of these mixed signals. Not much to do with me at our Ds award ceremony this morning, but told me ILY when we left for work.
Well it's not really mixed signals, she just "loves" you as a friend, or a family member (like a brother or uncle or something).
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I just feel like I do need to address the dishonesty and secrecy if she wants to work for something.
But she hasn't given you any indication that she wants to work on anything, right? Just says she is confused and trying to "find herself". So if you apply any pressure to her she's not going to react well to it.
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I'd like to see some transparency, it doesn't have to be MC right away again, IC is fine.
"Transparency" would be her giving you full access to her social media accounts and phone. That's not something you can demand from a WAS unless she has expressed interest in reconciling, and she's not there yet. Not even close by the sound of it. I think you said she's about to start IC again soon didn't you? Unfortunately that's not likely to help your sitch any, most IC's are just great at "telling them what they want to hear".
