Dillydaf thanks for that vision. I have already firmly decided that the sexual boundary line is never again to be crossed. I am waiting to hear from h when he needs me again. To tell him that the boundary is in place and wont happen whilst h is sleeping with someone else.
Interesting you bring up the kids, my 13 y.o has been acting out since this began. Its strange to say my kid is quiet and just gets on, but anger issues are raising there head, hitting out at school. Smacking h sometimes in the guise of playing. Today when talking to my 13 y.o about an incident at school. I asked what was going on inside and my kid stated it's so messed up inside and started to cry. I reassured, held etc.
The issue is how do I tell h? He will be convinced I have put words in my child's mouth, and that it is all coming from me. My heart is breaking, what do I do? I have downloaded headspace for kids. Reassured the mum and dad love for our child is always there. My child just wants mum and dad together. Our child doesnt know h has a OW. H wants to introduce I the next few weeks, when OW visits again. Previously I have stated I dont think this is a good idea, but h will do what he wants
