So so new to this :(

[Nyla79]

I'm here again. My H just came by, he said he wanted to talk about the kids and finances.

As soon as he came in I knew he wanted to have sex, and weak as I am, it did lead to it. Even though he was saying that we should stop and this shouldn't happen again. He was the one who initiated it.

After what happened he got up and said that we need to talk about the kids, and that he feels he should tell them that he is seeing another girl, firstly because they hear him talking to her on the phone. And I said that he should make sure they don't hear him then. And then I asked what the secondly was and he said he doesn't want to talk about it I asked him to tell me since he started and then he told me that the girl is moving here. She's actually moving from Germany to Spain to be with him!!! What is wrong with these people?!? And she's moving in with him.

I said that he needs to leave, and that I will talk to him about this when I don't feel so emotional about it.

I was kind of expecting it, but hoping that I was wrong. In a way I hope that this relationship will die off faster when she moves here, but at the same time, how can I stand for our marriage if he moves in with this girl? What do I teach my daughters if I just wait for him to come to his senses? That a man can treat you any way he wants to and you just sit and wait? And her moving here, what are the chances he will come to his senses?

And why the heck did he want to have sex with me before telling me this???