I just feel like I do need to address the dishonesty and secrecy if she wants to work for something. I'm fine to give her time and space (lots of DB and GAL for me) but she can't have everything. I'd like to see some transparency, it doesn't have to be MC right away again, IC is fine.
Again how are you going to address it? S: W I won't be in a relationship with someone who lies and is dishonest. W: ok
You then catch her in another lie. What are the consequences?
On a side note. What does the word transparency mean to you?