No you haven’t missed your chance to ask for your balls back.
Tell her you have thought about it and this is what you need moving forward to continue in this marriage. Transparency MC Etc Etc Etc
Now before saying it. What are the consequences when she says no?
Divorce? Separation?
What?
Yeah, I guess that's the rub. I'd like to think I'm tired enough to move on with all the disrespect. 2PAs 1EA and the lying and dishonesty for the last 18 months. At some point, I've had enough.
I don't know if I'm there. But I'm no longer pursuing someone that wants the same things I want, so the writing is clearly on the wall then if she continues in the As.
H46 W38 M12 T15 D8,S7,S5
11/12/17 "I don't want to be married like this" A began 7/12/18 Confessed A 10/1/19 EA still happening with 2 4/23/19 "I want a D, but I want to stay until I find a job"
