LH is very wise. I would heed his advice.

Si, what I mean by boundaries are not what you say, it is what you do. For instance. "I will not tolerate disrespectful talk."

The next time she verbally disrespects you you say: "I will not allow myself to be talked to this way." Then walk away. THAT is a boundary.

M(53), W(54),D(19)
M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017
Ring and Piecing since March 2018