It's pure manipulation and you jumped at the scrap as soon as she threw it.
U: You sound disappointed. Is that how you feel? W: yes it makes me feel like you don't care U: I'm sorry that I made you feel that way. W: why did I not get one. U: I have sent you letters in the past and they weren't well received
TRUST ME if she really wants to get close to you and work on things you will know.