Originally Posted by MLCxH
The more I start living as if she is never coming back the less I am motivated to stand for her. The thing about detachment is that you increase the distance from your W and it is only driving me further apart from her. Only thing I worry about is the kids at this point.

First STAND for yourself.
Then for your kids.

Those are the most important things.

Dont worry about her, that is her job not yours.

Me-70, D37,S36