Complex WW and/or MLC #3

[P_Jam]

LH,
You are correct. I don't deny that. Especially with such young kids. Staying involved with their sports and Dr. appt's its REALLY hard to even go one week without having face to face interaction with my W and we don't even hand off the kids to each other very often. I do see that as a possibility but I see that in a different context. I also have a harder time believing I will want/willing to take her back at that point. Maybe it's arrogance or more naivete but I believe that once the the rope is fully dropped I will actually be the one that moves on faster - but it is possible.

spent 5hrs with her today due to Dr. appt for S9. Same car, traffic, etc. It was even fun. Some of it is still cause I'm with her and I like that, second when I'm with her I know she isn't with anyone else, but its also an opportunity to lovingly detach in person. Because I was so 'locked-in" to her for a while I always knew I was giving off an "attached' vibe. But that is not the case now. I'm sure it's still not the same to her as when I fully drop the rope but I believe it is close. I can tell by the questions she tries to slide in. I'm having fun being happy and content around her without pursuit. It's all starting to come around.