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If it is any comfort

I have heard and lived through all those cycles

Remember that in the moment she says it

She probably really feels it

This is where listening and validating and detaching help you

I learned to keep my mouth shut and listen

She wants to be heard

Do not argue

Stay strong and steady

Gordie 40s W 40s M20+ kids
2016 BD W fantasy affair w OM1 I do everything wrong
2017 I start to DB W says TLTL files for D PA w OM2
2018 I do LRT W drops filing and OM2 situation slowly improving