When it comes to dealing with a wayward, adulterous wife, brevity really is the soul of wit.
Less is more.
There are goldfish with wider attention spans than Ws in MLC and/or an affair.
Originally Posted by SoloFlex
If she agrees, great (I don't have a disagree script at all yet).
What she "agrees" to will likely change from day to day, hour to hour, minute to minute.
You're the man.
You shall determine what happens and does not happen in your home.
Not by being an abusive jerk but by your authority, posture and demeanour.
You determine what shall be.
I really like this GH...... but a question: So much of the MLC is all about pressure and the perception of control being forced on them. I've read where IF you throw them out (or create an ultimatum), they remember that and it escalates the rift for a long time..... but if they choose or agree, then that isn't the case. Yes?
Boundaries = Good (protect yourself) Ultimatums = Bad (they normally backfire since they are pressure)
Aren't MLC's all about the path of least resistance/pain to reach their perceived promised land of no internal anguish? In this case, D = resistance. Separation = No resistance....... well that's what I'm wondering.
