Too much talk honestly. You need to show her you are AMAOAFWL

W: I want a D
H: I understand you think that a D will resolve everything and bring you happiness, I am not in agreement and don't want that, but I won't get in your way.

End of conversation, continue to DB, detach, 180, GAL. Thats it. You are essentially telling her that you are ok being plan B. Are you ok with being plan B? If not, then don't tell her that. Any time D comes up. "As I said before, I don't think thats a resolution for our issues, but again I won't stop you".

M:16
T:21
H(me) 38
WW: 38
S11 D16 D19
Red Flags of A: March 2018
ILYBNILWY: August 4, 2018
Moved out of MBR: September 24, 2018
BD/Confirmation of A: October 31, 2018
D Filed: March 27, 2019