You didn't dodge a bullet because there is no bullet. I know you read the CW book even though you don't follow it. By what you write here he would say you are acting in the feminine. Worse case scenario she freaks out and leaves you. Masculine J9 would dust off and get back on the horse.
H(37) W(35) D8, D5, S3 T20, M13 BD 8/31/18 EA Discovered 9/13/18 Mediation 10/3/18 W files for D 10/12/18 W moves out 11/10/18 EA confirmed 12/25/18 D Final 1/10/19
