Married couple from Scandinavia

[BenB]

Hello DnJ,

Our MC asked to see us separate so he could see if there are things we don´t want to say in front of each other. He asked both of us separately if we wanted to have more IC with him but both said we prefer going together and that one time was enough for now.

Thank you for your advice, it all really makes sense.

I doubt if I found out there had been EA or PA that I would show any jealousy in front of her. But on the other hand, I have never been cheated on before so I might have an unexpected reaction. However, I would be very surprised if she admitted to that. The surprise would be more so over her honesty than the cheating itself. She has everything to lose and has no way of maintaining the lifestyle she wants should she lose me(at the moment at least). We´re talking a complete flip from living in luxury to renting a small room out in the suburbs. I can´t see her willing to risk all that and be honest with me. I just feel if she would have cheated, she would be too afraid of my reaction to admit it.

I don´t know what else it could be if not MLC. Is transition better than MLC? This being the beginning of MLC scares me to say the least. This has been difficult enough as is, if this was just a teaser I fear what´s to come.

Ok, I will ask the questions tomorrow. I´ll let you know how it goes! And you are absolutely right, the MC is very good at taking hints and can handle both of us well it feels like.