Settling In (LB55 Thread 3)

[Ready2Change]

I don't want her to tell me how I feel, I want her to ask me how I feel.

You can't control other people.

Lets say you have a bad habit that you want to change. How hard is it for you to make the changes? It is going to take a lot of work and discipline. Now someone else has bad habits that you want to change. HOW HARD IS THAT GOING TO BE???


Just understand her. Listen and understand her story. It is not true. It is just her story.



If I met her out at a bar and she was talking about you, I would just listen and understand. I would enjoy her story.


W:"My husband is always angry bla bla bla"
ME:"That must be hard to deal with"
W"Bla bla bla bla bla"


She will feel better afterwards.