Done with a WW and moving on

[SoTorn]

Absolutely. I am showing my kids how an adult handles this situation. How you don't let someone mistreat you and control you.

EXWW is back from her out of town trip. She is consistently traveling again and staying longer to be with OM. I don't care. I actually enjoy her being gone.

I move on June 1, 2019. I can't wait to have my own place with zero influence from my EXWW. She is so NPD its ridiculous. I got up this morning. She says "good morning". I said "good morning". She asked if I was going out of town. I had already told her I was and when.

I confirmed that I am going out of town tomorrow and coming back Monday evening. Just like I did when I planned it. On the way out she asks "Did you buy S12 new clothes?"

I havent bought him clothes. I plan on taking D16 and S12 shopping for some new clothes to keep at my house when my EXWW pays me the rest of what she owes me per the D. They both know this. I just responded "no". Instead of leaving it alone EXWW says "So you just went and bought yourself more sh*t?".

I have bought quite a bit of new clothes for myself because I lost 100lbs. I shop at a cheap store and not the mall.

In my EXWW's eyes I am supposed to fail. I have to justify her actions by failing, by being irresponsible with money, not paying bills, having bad credit etc.

The reality is that I found a house to live in, qualified for it, got a great rate, have excellent credit, have extra money for me and my kids WITHOUT child support, even though I qualify for child support, and have no issues paying bills.

I am just so glad to see the light at the end of the tunnel. I can't believe I wasted time on this person when she literally does not care about me at all and goes out of her way to tell and show me that.