Originally Posted by si13
I'd given it a month. I'd seen these suspicious phone numbers and sat on it.

Not sure where to go from here then. I'm tired of being disrespected. I don't want to be an indecisive man with no boundaries.

I had planned to talk to her to say, you can either stay and work on the MR but I won't be your Plan B. I was discouraged from ultimatums.

I'm confused. Lonely. I get tricked by her hooks of flickering affection. I fall down. I miss my old marriage. I'm worn out.
Hang in there si13. Your old M is gone. Set boundaries, backed by action. "If you continue to do X, I will do Y".