Well I finally got to see the tattoo for about 3 seconds (LOL). I don't think she wanted me to see it, but it was payment for making dinner.
So I got my first inkling of an A last night. Came to bed a couple hours early (I always work late, and she's asleep when I go to bed). This time I came to bed just after midnight and she was awake. I was surprised she was awake, and she was surprised that I was there. I noticed her phone face down on the night stand, and then it buzzed with an incoming text. She grabbed it and said she was talking with her sister..... um, I don't remember her ever talking to her sister after midnight. Climbed into bed and she made sure to angle so I couldn't glance at it. She kelp asking what I was doing and that I was coming to bed early (I didn't realize this too was a 180 for me). After seeing her discomfort and annoyance, I closed by eyes and turned my head away to give her breathing room.
Her life, her choice, her problem. I can't make decisions for her, I can't steer her, I can't fix her. Disconnect, endure, let the problem run it's course. I hope she processes these issues and comes out the other side ok.
