"I was looking through our wedding pictures, and you didn't look happy when you were walking with me down the aisle. This is just another sign that we weren't meant to be together."
That was one of the best days of my life. At least I know she still has the pictures.
So I'm looking for some good ways to tell her that her assumptions about things need to stop.
Example: "I know that you are angry." "I know that you hate me." "I know that your family hates me." "I know that you were never happy."
These statements are very presumptuous, but if I engage and say that's not how I feel, it gets heated quickly. I don't feel that way, and she does this in almost every communication. Some permutation of an assumption of how I feel, what I think, or why I do things.
Me40; W38; S12; D9 BD11/19/2018 D filed 12/20/18 D Final 7/2020 Being the best example I know how for my kids to see.
